Intentional living

A summer trip without the September regret

Summer in the Philippines has a particular rhythm. School's out, the beaches are full, and everyone's feed is wall-to-wall travel.

And then June comes. Enrolment. Uniforms. Rainy season. And for a lot of households, a credit card bill from April that still hasn't been paid off by September.

I'm not going to tell you not to travel. Rest is not a luxury. Memories with your family are not a waste. But there's a way to do it that you don't regret three months later.

Price the whole trip, not the flight

People budget for the flight and the hotel, and then get ambushed by everything else.

The real cost of a trip includes:

  • Transport to and from the airport or port
  • Terminal fees, baggage, seat selection
  • Food, which always costs more than you think on holiday
  • Activities, tours, entrance fees
  • Pasalubong, which in many families is not optional
  • The days of income you lose if you're self-employed
  • The week after, when nobody wants to cook

Add it all up, then add 15% for what you forgot. That's the real number.

Decide the number first

Before you book anything, decide the total you're willing to spend. Then plan the trip inside it.

This sounds obvious, but most people do the opposite. They find a great deal, book it, and then everything else gets added on top until the "cheap" trip costs double.

Number first, then destination.

Pay for it before you go

The trips that cause regret are the ones paid for after they happen.

If you can, save for it in advance: a sinking fund, a separate account, a few months of setting aside. Then the trip is something you've already paid for, and you can enjoy it without a running total in your head.

If you must use a card, decide how many months you'll take to pay it off and make sure that fits before you book. "I'll figure it out after" is how a three-day trip becomes a nine-month payment.

Protect the things that can't wait

There are a few bills that should never get pushed back because of a trip:

  • Rent or amortisation
  • Your insurance premiums
  • Tuition and enrolment, which arrive in June whether or not you went to Boracay

If a trip only works by delaying one of these, the trip isn't affordable yet. Make it smaller, or move it.

A note on travel insurance

For domestic trips, many people skip it. For international trips, it's often required, and it's worth reading what it actually covers: medical costs abroad, cancellations, lost bags.

Also check what your existing policies and HMO cover when you're travelling. Many have limits or exclusions outside the Philippines, and the middle of a medical emergency abroad is not the time to find out.

The family-trip conversation

If you're the one paying for the whole family, which is common, have the conversation early.

"I can do this trip, and this is the budget. Let's plan it together."

It's not ungenerous. It means everyone gets a trip that doesn't come back as stress in September.

This week

If a summer trip is coming, write down the real total, including everything on the list above. Then compare it to what you've set aside.

If there's a gap, you still have time to close it, or to make the trip a little smaller. Both are better than a September surprise.

— Venus

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